Featuring Guest Blogger from Words and Dexterity


Bio – My name is T L Holliday. I have a huge mind that can sometimes get me in trouble, but I mostly use it to educate ignorance.

I totally recommend this awesome page. It speaks volumes. The words, the art, the photos. It is all there. This is the kind of stuff that needs to be spread around the internet like wildfire. It is food for the soul. Have a good time reading this guest blog post and when you have the chance, I recommend that you go on over to her website and experience the amazingness that is unleashed from a super creative soul. One who I love very much and am very proud of. Even if she was not my niece, I would say all of this because I totally mean it.

xo Namaste, Dany

535033_3174082588331_593966042_n Photo taken by Holliday (it is my son’s hand and a puzzle piece he was playing with outside a few summers ago)



Something that never fails to astound me is the lack of humanity in the world. Everyone is worried about who’s doing what, who’s doing who, who’s getting what and how much of it. What does any of what other people do have to do with your life? Why do you care about how someone else identifies? They’re not doing it to personally hurt you or to make you feel uncomfortable. SURPRISE! The reason they do anything has absolutely nothing to do with you. Stop judging people based on their race, sexual orientation, gender, religious beliefs, just stop judging people period.

There is no race except the human race. We are a species. We only have different skin tones to better suit the geographical areas we live in. Take animals for example; there are many different species and breeds of animals depending on where you are in the world. Some can survive easier in parts of the world that others cannot because they are born with the traits necessary for life in those regions. But they don’t kill each other because of it, they use it to survive. So when someone is racist and violent towards another person that is literally telling you that they have more basic human rights than that person because their skin color differs.

I also don’t understand the need to label everything. Why do you need to put me in a category? And then get upset if I tell you that I don’t fit in that category? Everyone needs to understand that sexuality and gender is fluid. Being born with certain sexual organs does not determine what your gender is. Each individual person decides for themselves what gender they feel they are, not the gender roles forced upon them by society. Same thing with sexuality. As a human you are attracted or not attracted to someone based on the person they are, not about what’s between their legs. Society teaches you to assume everyone is a cisgender heterosexual until told otherwise. We need to teach our kids to not assuming anyone is anything and to accept people for who they are.

Religion is another touchy subject, but I’ll shed a little light on it. I have no problem with religion, the problem I have is, again, with the people who “practice” it. I say “practice” because religion is supposed to be personal, not displayed for the world to see and shoved down everyone’s throat. And just like gender and sexuality, it is something you yourself decide what best fits how you feel. Religion is your personal relationship with whatever god(s) you believe in, not a love triangle between you, your god, and the rest of the world. There are many different religions and spiritual practices in the world, so it makes absolutely no sense when people try to enforce their religion onto other people as if their religion is the only religion. It also has no business being in law enforcement, but I’ll save that for another day.

Being a human is like being an animal; we all look different, have different sets of skills, and were put on this earth unwillingly without a hand book. But for some reason animals have a better understanding of how to live, and they’re so simple yet complex to us. How can the very things we call wild and unpredictable be more human and understanding of how life works than actual humans? How can they co-exist with so many other species and manage not to destroy each other or the earth? They stay in their lane, that’s how! They take care of each other and their habitats, they don’t shit where they sleep.

Just take a second and sit down. Zoom out of your own life right now and picture the world as a whole. All the different countries on different continents spread out in a big ball of ocean. Now zoom out of that image and picture all the planets in our solar system. Now zoom out of that. What do you see? Some people know what that actually looks like and others never even thought to imagine that such a thing exists. It does, and even beyond that exists. There are billions of other solar systems in billions of other galaxies. Just imagine what could be out there. How small does that make your life seem? Small enough to realize all the bullshit in your life? And that most of the things you do, say, and think are pointless because now you see that you were only doing those things because you’re a product of society? If it did then you’re one of the lucky ones who has the ability to broaden and take their minds to the next level. And if it didn’t then hopefully one day it will.

So to end this post I’ll just say,

Love yourself, love your neighbor, love your earth and you’ll be happier for it I promise.

– T L Holliday


2 thoughts on “Featuring Guest Blogger from Words and Dexterity

  1. You’re an amazing woman T.L I love and agree with your points of view. I’ve kept my religion a very personal thing to myself. And I know why I chose to do that. It sustains me and gives me pride and purpose. That will always remain close to my heart, and private to me. Whatever anyone’s beliefs I support their right to believe in them. John Lennon said it so beautifully. Imagine all the people living in harmony. Beautifully written I’m following along on your journey. 😊

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